Meri, the first wife, married Kody in 1990 and has had a complicated relationship with him, facing struggles with infidelity and emotional distance. Janelle, the second wife, married Kody in 1993 and has been more independent, often seen as the pragmatic one in the family. Christine, the third wife, married Kody in 1994 and was known for her deep emotional connection to him, but she left Kody in 2021 after years of marital challenges, seeking personal happiness and fulfillment.